Goal Getter: Fuel Your Goals Without Burning Out
Ep. 20•May 6, 2025•21 min

020. The Hidden Cost of Busyness: Why doing more isn't always better | With Alexa Hanshaw Pt 1

Are you constantly busy but never feel truly productive? In this episode, I sit down with stress management expert Alexa Hanshaw to uncover the hidden cost of busyness and why hustle culture is draining your energy instead of fueling your success. We dive into why high achievers fall into the "always busy" trap, how stress impacts your health, mindset, and productivity, and the powerful shifts you can make to break free from the cycle of burnout. Alexa shares actionable strategies to manage stress, create balance, and boost energy so you can show up at your best—without running yourself into the ground. If you've ever said, "I'm just too busy" or felt like you're spinning your wheels, this episode is for you. Learn how to work smarter, not harder, and build a fulfilling life that prioritizes well-being over exhaustion.   Follow on instagram @iamjennahostetler and @sprintnutrition   Connect with Alexa on her website

Key Takeaways

  • 1

    Differentiating between acute and chronic stress

    Acute stress (eustress) can be a positive motivator for productivity.

    Chronic stress occurs when the body never completes the stress cycle, leaving the nervous system stuck in a 'fight or flight' state.

    The danger lies in the constant 'ping' of stressors without allowing the body to reset into the parasympathetic 'rest and digest' mode.

  • 2

    Recognizing the hidden physical signs of stress

    Stress manifests beyond mental fatigue, appearing as headaches, eye strain, digestive irregularities, and mood swings.

    Compromised immune function, leading to frequent colds or illnesses, is a common symptom of long-term chronic stress.

  • 3

    Breaking the cycle of stress eating

    Stress eating is often a response to boredom, sadness, or anger rather than physical hunger.

    Using a hunger scale helps build awareness of actual physiological needs versus emotional cravings.

    The goal is to shift the mindset from seeking a 'perceived reward' to eating for nourishment.

  • 4

    Managing busyness in high-pressure environments

    Conducting a time study helps identify 'time leaks' like excessive social media use or mindless screen time.

    Wellness doesn't require an hour at the gym; small, consistent pockets of movement and mindfulness can significantly shift perspective.

    High achievers often wear busyness as a badge of honor, which can mask the underlying need for better boundary setting and support.

Intro

  • In this episode, host Jenna Hostetler explores the hidden costs of hustle culture and the physiological impact of chronic stress with expert Alexa Hanshaw.
  • Alexa Hanshaw is a health and stress management coach who specializes in helping high performers and corporate professionals manage stress, improve gut health, and build sustainable habits.

– Identifying the Hidden Signs of Stress

  • Alexa highlights that stress isn't always obvious. Beyond feeling overwhelmed, it manifests physically in ways people often overlook.
  • Headaches and eye strain
  • Digestive issues (constipation or diarrhea)
  • Increased irritability or taking stress out on loved ones

– The Stress Cycle: Eustress vs. Chronic Stress

The issue with chronic stress is when people don't finish the stress cycle. You have a trigger, the stress response, and then the part that most people miss is the rest or the reset part.

– Alexa Hanshaw
  • The danger is when the body's 'new normal' becomes the stress response, leading to long-term health consequences.

– Physical Stressors Beyond the Mind

  • Physical habits can act as significant stressors, even if they aren't mental. Sleep deprivation and over-exercising (especially high-intensity training without recovery) keep the body in a state of constant inflammation and stress.

– Overcoming the Stress-Eating Cycle

  • Alexa emphasizes that stress eating is a habit that requires awareness and a shift in mindset, rather than a quick fix.

It's really mostly a mindset shift and getting them to connect their action with the perceived reward from it.

– Alexa Hanshaw

– Actionable Time Management for Busy Lives

  • For those in high-stress phases, Alexa suggests conducting a time study to find hidden pockets of time and prioritizing wellness through micro-habits like 5-minute meditations or efficient meal prep.

– Reflecting on Busyness as a Badge of Honor

I think our society almost wears busyness like a badge versus being all sides of what busyness can bring.

– Alexa Hanshaw

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